I don't even know where to start with these two

On one hand, one can't deal with her anxiety. On the other hand, the other can't deal with her anxiety, her anger, and her problems. The sad thing is when the one with seemingly more problems is the easier one to deal with. Though I'm pretty sure she's either throwing up or crying in the bathroom right now. So there's that. Which is a whole other thing. I just need to study and focus on my own problems.