Afraid of so much

I've never understood my fears.
Fear of the telephone. It's so stupid, and socially hindering.
Fear of other women's periods. I have no idea about this one.
Fear of my kinks. This is only sometimes, and with her. I can never feel good about anything with her.
I wish I could just get rid of these annoying roadblocks. They hold me back so much, and I can't stand it.